I love Fridays…
There is so much to do. Aloha Friday, Friday Followers, and The Dating Profiles meme.
Before I get started, I just want to let you know that I did get an iPhone. I went in for the Blackberry and the gentleman at the store talked me into the iPhone because of what my needs were. And, he threw in a FREE Samsung for my son. Woohoo! Thanks for all of your suggestions and help!
What do you do to be happy?
I just read this article on Oprah.com, 5 Things Happy People Do.
Here is a summary;
1. They find their most golden self.
Picture happiness. What do you see?
2. They design their lives to bring in joy.
It may seem obvious, but “people don’t devote enough time to thinking seriously about how they spend their life and how much of it they actually enjoy,” says David Schkade, PhD, a psychologist and professor of management at the University of California San Diego.
3. They avoid “if only” fantasies.
If only I get a better job…find a man…lose the weight…life will be perfect. Happy people don’t buy into this kind of thinking.
The latest research shows that we’re surprisingly bad at predicting what will make us happy. People also tend to misjudge their contentment when zeroing in on a single aspect of their life—it’s called the focusing illusion. In one study, single subjects were asked, “How happy are you with your life in general?” and “How many dates did you have last month?” When the dating question was asked first, their romantic life weighed more heavily into how they rated their overall happiness than when the questions were reversed.
4. They put best friends first.
It’s no surprise that social engagement is one of the most important contributors to happiness. What’s news is that the nature of the relationship counts. Compared with dashing around chatting with acquaintances, you get more joy from spending longer periods of time with a close friend, according to research by Meliksah Demir, PhD, assistant professor of psychology at Northern Arizona University.
5. They allow themselves to be happy.
As much as we all think we want it, many of us are convinced, deep down, that it’s wrong to be happy (or too happy). Whether the belief comes from religion, culture, or the family you were raised in, it usually leaves you feeling guilty if you’re having fun.
So, my question for you is, what do you do to be happy? Have you ever thought about being happy or is this something you’ve forgotten to do?
The Dating Profiles Meme: Here Comes the Sun
1. I love the sun, it goes great with the beach.
No kidding….
2. If I had it all to do again, I would do it all again, because we do our best given the circumstances and for the most part, life is good.
Do what again? Step in what you just stepped in?
3. I’m looking for someone that’s somewhat active.
Here we go again kiddies…..check the local humane society…
4. I’m not a materialistic person, although, I’ll admit, sometimes it’s nice.
What? Materials? I’m quite partial to the ones that cover my body.
5. Relationships are a two way street. Anything will be fun, as long as I’m with the right person.
Lucky mommy….
6. Im a unique Honest latina looking for the last love of my live.
Dude….I’m seeing facial hair here…
7. I treat people the way I want others to treat me and looking for the same because life is too short to be alone and we have no promises for tomorrow.
Could be why you’re 40 and still single….
8. Not looking for garbage.
Not surprised….
9. I am against liers, crazy online people, loosers, BLIND DATES, a plane ticket ,game players or insecure people online.
I’m sure the feeling is mutual.
10. It’s easier to go down a hill than up it… But the view is much better at the top.
Then by all means…don’t let me stand in your way….
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Yikes…who does this look like???
It’s not Sarah! It’s Angelina Jolie!
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Congrats on your Iphone purchase! I have one too, I don’t think I’ll EVER want another phone!
Have a great weekend!
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Congrats on your i-phone purchase.. you’ll have to give us a review… I’m still hanging on to my little cell phone on a pay-as-you go plan.. but maybe one of these days…
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Well I’m glad you took my advice… pffft I love your number 6…too funny
1. Watch a fun movie
2. spend time with my DAD.
3. seeing Critter
4. My 15 year old daughter.
5. Planning and going on a great vacation.
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Happy Friday!
Kel
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here for aloha friday…
to be happy, I document, blog, and remember – about the good stuffs and less of the bad stuffs. life’s a charm!
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Thanks for stopping by! Happy Friday Follow! The Wii keep me happy, or at least less stressed!
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I feel happy about my life overall, but my problem is not feeling like I’m fulfilling my purpose. I just haven’t yet figured out what that is, beyond being a parent. And I certainly am guilty of not spending enough time with friends or keeping up those connections as well as I could. Family always comes first and my needs tend to come after it all…when I’m too exhausted to do anything about it.
Interesting post…btw I used to like Angelina, years ago. Now she’s just scary, lol.
Have a great weekend!
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being with family and friends always makes me happy
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Happy Friday! Congrats on your phone purchase. I am generally quite happy with my life, no need to visualise when I already am happy.
I beg to differ on the socialising aspect, I havve never been one to socialise much and I have been and remain quite happy.
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Visiting from “Friday Follow”…I’m already a follower
Have a great weekend!
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Thanks so much for stopping by for Friday Follow! Looking forward to reading your blog!
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New follow from Friday follow. Thanks for dropping in over @ A Penny Saved to follow us. Have a great weekend.
Jen @ A Penny Saved
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Thanks for visiting. Following you back!! Have a great weekend!
Thanks for visiting! I look forward to reading more of your posts! Have a wonderful day : )
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Thanks for coming over to my blog. I’m here from Friday Follow!
Have a great weekend!
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Thanks for stopping by and following. I’m your newest follower from FF!
Congrats on your new phone – I’m still in the dark ages…but, I’m technically challenged, so it’s probably best I stay with my old phone – it would be dangerous for us all if I upgraded…
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Hi!! thanks for visiting my post during Follow Friday and following.
I’m also getting the email RSS feed for your sited and blog giveaways site (and really enjoy it!)
Happy Follow Friday!!!
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Thanks for the Friday Follow & I’m following back
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I Love my IPhone too…. I waited and waited until my phone contract was up so I could get one. It makes me happy!
I like to craft…that makes me happy… I love to blog hop and make friends…that makes me happy. FRIDAY makes me giddy!
Have a great weekend.
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The “mommy” line was the best! Too funny. Enjoy your Friday…
My hubby LOVES his iPhone! I have the iPod Touch, which is the same except it does haven’t the phone… and I love the apps! Grocery IQ, Pandora, Facebook, Ebay…. so many, so little time!
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I always say happiness is over-rated. LOL We have a friend who is going through a break-up, his wife is looking for happiness and can’t seem to find it.
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Thanks for stopping by for FF, I am you newest follower! Have a great weekend!
Congrats on your iPhone. Computers & the Internet makes me happy – lol.
What I’m curious about is whether the iphone service is as horrible as they say (AT&T). I hear the phone is great itself but the air takes away from the joy. Let us know!
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Yay for Fridays, new Friday follower here. I always try to take time for myself and I stay happy that way.
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I would LOVE a new phone. That would make me VERY happy. To be happy I generally just have to spend the day with my wonderful kids. They make me very happy.
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I am now following you back.
have a great day!
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Happiness is something that I’ve always had to work for. When I take my meds then I am fine but sometimes I need to do more. I usually give my mother a call, get more sleep, or have a glass of wine. That makes me feel better.
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Hi Harriet,
I am stopping by to visit you from Friday Follow. I am a new follower. I just have to say, when I was growing up my FAVORITE dog was my Schnauzer “Pepper”. It brought back memories when I read that you have a Schnauzer. You have great taste in dogs! Someday I will get another. I so, so, so loved that dog. Would you believe we gave her away because of my mom’s allergies…..THE NERVE!!!!!!! I cried like a baby.
Oh well, I am sure that was more than you wanted to know…..have a great Friday. Hope you are a follower at Moms Own Words! Thanks!
Kristi
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Stopping by from “Friday Follow” and am now a follower of your site.
I love the happiness post! <3
Have a great weekend!
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Hi Harriet, thanks for joining my blog! I am joining yours too!!!
Yay, for your I phone! To be happy I try to be thankful everyday for the little things! I think my family and my pets bring me much happiness! I think you have to take alone time and do something you enjoy! Thanks for stopping by my Aloha! Happy Friday Follow as well! Have a great weekend!
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I’ve been wanting a blackberry for the longest, I think I might be the last person in the US with a cell phone that literally knock someone out lol
Following you right back from FF =)
Have a greawt weekend!
Much Luv,
Karen
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I do try to make a conscious effort to be happy. Some days are easier than others…
Congrats on the iphone purchase and that sounds like a great deal you got!
Happy. I’m always happy or frustrated or in between, but I think I’m usually just joyful.
If i feel odd..drone, weird emotion I feel it out and then kick it out. Music usually helps
Enjoy the weekend!
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I like the list of how people stay happy. I’m guilty of “What if” and “If only.” This was a great reminder for me to enjoy the moment.
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Congrats on the i-phone and I love what you said for #6 on the Dating Profiles Meme. lol
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Congrats!!! I wish I had an Iphone
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I just came by from Friday Follow! How do you like texting and sending emails on the IPhone? Do you like it better than the Blackberry?
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Happy Friday Follow or is it follow friday oh well HI!
Thanks for visiting my blog… I am a follower
Following you back!
I think an iPhone would make me happy too!
But other than that, I count my blessings, pray, and look to the future and dream. I also listen to some fun music or watch a favorite movie. A gift card to a favorite store helps too!
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Happy Friday!! Thanks for stopping by. I’m a new follower.
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Happy Friday Follow!
Following you from…
http://bizzimommi.blogspot.com- looking to build my following too!
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Thanks for the follow. I am following you too.
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