Do you remember turning the big 2-1?
Seems like yesterday to me.
I was dating my now hubby at the time and my parents took us out to eat. My father wanted to be the first to congratulate me in the official way for a big 2-1.
Now, the restaurant we went to is long gone and I’ve moved away.
Both of my parents have passed.
And, my son is turning 21.
Funny thing is, I’m only 29!
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How to Celebrate a 21St Birthday
from wikiHow – The How to Manual That You Can Edit
It’s the birthday you have been waiting for. The big 21! It is now legal for you to celebrate your birthday in ways you couldn’t at 18 or younger. Follow this guide for a safe, but unforgettable 21st birthday.
Steps
- Think about where you would like the party to be at before you make out the invitations. Do you want a get together at your house? Or maybe one of your friends is willing to host your party at their house. Are you looking for a good restaurant? Consider these before making a final selection.
- If you are choosing a restaurant those highly recommended for a 21st birthday party are any Darden restaurants (Red Lobster, Macaroni Grill, etc). A pub like CB& Potts or Old Chicago may also prove to go well.
- Make out the invitations to your friends. As with any invitation make sure to give important information like RSVP number, location, time, and date of the party.
- Call the restaurant and see if it is possible to book a special events room for the day of the party. There will be spacious room for all the food as well as a good environment to walk around in.
- A day or two before the party go onto the restaurant’s website and get an idea for the food. Depending on how many people are attending or their personal preferences you have one of two choices.
- You can go the standard way and have each person select a menu item of their own. If you are expecting a larger amount you may want to get a large quantity of seven or eight platters.
- Finally because this is your 21st birthday you are legal age to drink! Again you can let people select a glass of their own wine or you may sit a large bottle of Pinot Noir or Chardonnay on the table.
- Enjoy the party!
Tips
- Try to limit your guest list to under 25 people. After this amount the party may actually seem like too much pressure to handle and may prevent you from having a great time.
- Refrain from asking family members. This is nothing against them but remember this is an adult party with alcohol and the works. This is obviously not appropriate for younger children.
- After the party construct a thank-you letter to the manager or whoever helped you set your party up. They gave a significant amount of their time so you could have a great 21st!
Warnings
- As with all alcohol careful preparations must be made in advance to avoid accidents. If you plan to drink more than a few glasses of wine, beer, or any alcohol have someone else drive you home or better yet designate a driver who will commit to not drink at the party.
Things You’ll Need
- Party Invitations
- Friends
- A location to hold the party
Article provided by wikiHow, a wiki how-to manual. Please edit this article and find author credits at the original wikiHow article on How to Celebrate a 21St Birthday. All content on wikiHow can be shared under a Creative Commons license.
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Congrats to your son. And congrats to you on 29. I’ll be turning 29 on Saturday!
I grew up in Wisconsin where the drinking age was 18 when I was 18. Kegger parties at the bar were pretty much required back then.
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Happy Birthday to your son! I think my 21st birthday was my best/most memorable ever.
Hey, I am turning 29 (again) this weekend!!
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My 21st Birthday was l-a-m-e, but you know what? I actually spent it with the man who became my husband. It was on a Tuesday so nowhere “cool” was open. We planned to go to another restaurant, didn’t make reservations, and got there only to find the entire place was closed for a staff party. When we found another place to eat where I ordered my first drink. A cosmopolitan. I was SOOO excited and had my ID in my hand under the table ready to whip it out at her request, but she never asked for it. She just took my order and turned away to get it. All those years and I never got carded for my first legal drink!
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You remember turning 21? Wow! I have absolutely no recollection…wish I did, it was probably far more exciting than what I did when I turned 30 and 40…
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Oh, the Big 21, as parents you kind of DREAD it but you do remember experiencing it. I hope your son has a wonderful birthday.
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happy 21st to your son. Looking back, oh! my 40 yrs. ago. i still feel like 30. have a good day
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I like the one about cake but on your birthday you are free to have AS MUCH AS YOU WANT!
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Happy birthday to him!
Isn’t it funny how they grow up so quickly and we don’t age a bit?!
The American way: get wasted all night, then hurl all day.
The European way: visit a museum with the parents.
The Arab way: have your parents inform you that if you commit a mishap, you’ll go to jail!
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Ahhh…21. Happy birthday to your son. I’m sure he will have the time of his life.
I remember when I turned 21, they didn’t even ask for my ID. Actually, they ask more now with all the tighter laws.
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My son will 21 on Aug 31.Amazing that,considering I just turned 29 for the..10th! time back in Feb! lol! He’s planning to do the usual bar hop (yawn) and get toasted. I spose he should take advantage of it,not too many times strangers want to buy your drinks,least if you’re a guy! On my “real” 21st,I had been married for almost 3 years,and the now ex hubby took me out to dinner,and,boozing…yippie it was legal.I was serenaded by a local group with the song “Why Dont We Get Drunk and Screw”. I think I was sung Happy Birthday to also,I cant recall now,since I was sooo embarrassed by the Screw song lol! All I can say is it was memorable,and I didnt get too toasty,cos I remember the whole night! =D
I hope our kids’ 21st bdays are memorable and safe too!
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I turned 21 on the day they changed the drinking age from 19 to 21 in Chicago. Funny thing was I had been imbibing for a year or 2 already and when I suggested the bartender buy me a drink for my birthday, he wanted to kick me out for “deceiving” him for a year or 2 prior. But he had never asked me for an ID before that night!
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